H and I own business together, still talking

[micoms]

Grid,

I agree with giving him the Bday gift, it will show him you still want to be connected with him.

Everyone doesn't understand why W keeps working this job and crappy hours. She only Makes $10/hr, easy to find jobs paying that in our area. Also I make enough that she really doesn't have to work. She is very good at what she does, is the best employee in the deli dept. They have asked her to become a manager, she doesn't want the responsibilities. She wants to go to the jewelery dept, more normal hours as it isn't open 24hrs.

I think she wants to keep working there because OM works there, although I don't think she is seeing him now. I don't know if he told her he won't see her until she's D'd and that is why she is on the fast track for a D or not. I have talked to her friend and old manager who said OM won't leave his wife, Yes he is M'd, for her. I do think they have had a PA in the past. I can look back and see where they stopped seeing each other twice. Just in her attitudes and how she treated me differently at times.

Most of the single guys at the lanes the women refer to them as hounds. When they find out one of them got a divorce they hound them trying to get a date. I think that's why the women have more respect for me, I'm just their friend, I don't hound them.

MC said W had something traumatic happen in her childhood or adolesence that is starting to come out. It's what is behind her MLC the MC says.She asked me to try to remember if W ever said anything about that, nothing comes to mind.

Mike