Wandering Poster is a Bit Restless

[AliSuddenly]

ah bless you, thanks. Not so great today! Slipped up big time. I hate that we end up looking back so far..my BF made a comment that made me think this went back about 8 years! But then he retracted it and said everything was fine till about last June when he suddenly "woke up". Its just all so complex.

Thanks for the http advice. Ha! And I was a web developer for 6 years until recently!! Good job I gave it up!

From the sounds of your thread, you also seem to have enormous patience...to stick with your wife and family through all of that. Probs a silly questions, but seeing as your in America (AZ - Arizona??), have you tried that Retroville? My sister did in CA and it worked a treat. Her and her H had 12 years of rejecting behaviours and hardened resentments on both sides but it broke the cycle for them. You have probs heard of it, been and done that and designed the t-shirt hey :-)