I suppose so, I am still in stage one, so I need to just gtin and bear it until she is more relaxed. I keep promising that I wont talk about R or OM as it pretty much guarantees a fight. Sad thing tonight was that she was sick afterward (maybe to do with the pregnancy or me or the fact that we watched that new film cloverfield) I have set myself a 2 week plan, to keep my mouth shut and help her relax until valentines day. I am not hoping for much on valentines day i just dont want to fight on that day. I will want to ask if the OM gave her anything, but that can wait till a later date (and if she got him anything). I have booked tickets to see Madame butterfly on the 16th so I hope we will be better by then. more relaxed I mean. Thanks again Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.