Yea that makes sense Jack, maybe being out is a little easier, in that you are not subjected to their insanity 24-7...

I have to pat myself on the back, W called and needed to borrow my 4-wheel drive so she could take D home and see her grandmother (snowing like a mother around here). I was positive, upbeat, and when W started in on the "I am doing okay, it's just that". I changed the subject and discussed something else..

Little step but nonetheless it was a step..