Did your H come out and say "NO" to your going back for your Bachelor's? When you say it was "met with great objection", just how did he object? Are you certain that what you perceive to be his thoughts are truly his thoughts?
It's not that I think you're making things up or anything like that, but I have found that sometimes when my H was silent or non-responsive, it wasn't because he disapproved, he just didn't really have a response. And, to tell you the truth, it took me A LONG TIME to understand that about him.
There have been a lot of things I had to figure out about my H as to whether or not I was willing to accept. And the more I thought about things, and when I chose to look for the positives, I realized that the sitch's weren't as bad as I had always thought. It's AMAZING how our minds can go astray with negative thoughts and it actually takes A LOT of practice and trusting God to believe the positives. It's a learned trait, that's for certain.
Anyway, just some ? to help you think. Hope it helps.
(Also, if you want something to help understand men's thoughts, you REALLY need to see this: http://www.laughyourway.com/video/ I never understood men's thoughts about 'nothing' until after I saw this video.) BTW, if it doesn't come up just search for "Tale of Two Brains" by Mark Gungor.
"GET BUSY LIVING OR GET BUSY DYING...."
And... for your viewing pleasure.... http://www.laughyourway.com/video/ Best video I've seen that helps define the difference between Men's & Women's thoughts.
