I have a question...should I tell my ex-best friends H the truth about the A?
Wouldn't you want someone to tell you? My H played off his A (when he finally confessed) like it was no big deal, a few times, just a friend, blah blah blah. The next week, OW's H called and told me the actual truth (much longer time span, they were saying "I love you" etc). I don't regret it for a moment that someone told me, and I would do the same all over again.
