Thanks for the comments and you are right on,this was an isolated incident,he does love and respect his mother very much,they get along great.
He is hurting and concerned about his parents,but I have talked with him and told him to just love his mother and be a good son,he can continue to pray for Gods will to be done and our family healed,but I've told him not to bug his mom with questions about her and I,that it is in Gods hands and mom and I will try to figure things out.
He is a great kid and he just wants us all back together again as a happy family.
Married 28 yrs Seperated 6 mths Rec D Papers 11/24 W Canceled D Moved Back Home 3/1/08 2 Kids D23 and S16 Trying 2 Put R Back Together