Choc is spot on, as usual. If he is "gap-filling" that is one thing, but when he is doing it 2-3 times a week and not doing anything with you, a real woman, it is an entire other issue. It is the difference between supplementing and replacing.
PF
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
