Awesome to hear. I went through a similar "Come to Jesus" type thing with my H a few months ago. Know that this will be where it really gets difficult. In the midst of reconciliation, you will feel hurt and you will feel all the feelings of betrayal coming up to mess with your head. Know that it will pass.

I told my H: As long as you're willing to work on yourself and work on the M, I am willing to work with you. There will be TOUGH times ahead when I am going to need reassurance and help from you to be strong...and YOU need to be there for me.

These past few months have been eye-opening and redeeming for both of us. We've discussed things about our lives and our feelings we've never dared utter before.

Be prepared for the most gut-wrenching and euphoric times of your marriage.

And keep filling us in. Be proud of how you got where you did; you did a great job!

Regards,

ntl

Last edited by ntl; 02/01/08 10:27 PM.
Me: 30
H: 32
Dating 10/96
Married 8/01
H PA's: Summer 97, 12/06, 5/07-10/23/07
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