BFM - just wanted to thank you for offering encouragement on my post about my D talk with H. It helps to hear "been there, done that, and it's better now". This a.m. I started focusing on what he had said and stopped myself by remembering your post.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now