She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

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It's most dangerous when "she is being very sweet and we are communicating" and you think things are going well.

MM, your sitch is really good. Don't mess it up by not listening to me. Back off. Give her space. Try it once. Write about it here. Have you tried it yet and just not written it?

Your wife is a nice person, she doesn't want to hurt you. She is going to say nice things to you. It doesn't mean she's ready to come back. Give her time.

I know it's hard. It's almost easier when the situation is worse (an OP, or MLC or something), it's easier to detach when that's happening, maybe. The point is, it's hard, but you have to do it.

I'm I being clear?