She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

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Hey Buddy,
My W said all of those things, and they were true. I think you can believe it. Just don't take it as rejection, don't take it too seriously, and remember it's not about you.
Remember about unconditional love: aren't you happy she is sleeping well? Aren't you glad her back feels better.
If it helps you, think of it like this: you're being supportive, strong, not getting upset, giving her the space she needs, she'll remember it. My W has thanked me for being there, giving her the space, being patient. Don't be needy.

If you can avoid initiating contact, if you can relax and enjoy your time by yourself, you'll be surprised when she does initiate. (I'm betting she will, IF you have the patience)

Relax.