thanks darkestangel for advice but i screwed up...h opened up to me for first time in ages. just chatted. i then asked him if this was all about ow. he replied once the papers are signed he will let their relationship continue to develop! I asked him about her boyfriend and whether h minded ruining another persons life and he just kept quiet. i told him that basically what he wants is to have papers signed so h can become open about a that has been happening anyway. I do so well with dbing until he opens up and then i screw up! I want to confront ow so much but everyone tells me not to but ifeel like a am cowering away from her. My c says that our mc is doing divorce counselling and that i should stop going because she is building him up so he can walk away with no guilt, i sit there and watch his therapy. She says i must say until he is willing to work on our m there is no point in mc. this is a huge gamble , what you think?
My h is full swing into the a, they are now dating (not confirmed by him ) i asked him what makes him think he is so special - she is a homewrecker and if she could break up a m what makes him think she wont cheat on him. i toldihm i thought he had higher standards.my h still says he does not want to come back.
