there isn't a pathetic bone in your body my friend.. so STOP IT! You are a wonderful person, who happens to still love her husband even though he's doing what he's doing, it doesn't make you pathetic it makes you a warm human being.
You do have support here, and we all love you and know that you will be ok because you are strong and will get through this.
Yes be respectful.. loving..no.. kind and respectful. that's it.
If you do seperate I don't think it will be such a bad thing, but it will hurt no doubt but time will tell.. he may miss you so much and come to his freakin senses!!!!
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.