I would agree with you, in my sitch being a "different" Husband was what was needed not going dark. Dom hit the nail on the head for me early in my S when he advised that my wife was looking for a husband not another child...

Anyway, good looking out!

I hope that you see continued improvement in your sitch Rock.

HOUND

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce