Met with the WAW for coffee today. I was DB'ing my butt off. This advice comes to those who were perpetually silent/quiet in the marriage. Major issue WAW has is if I am truly in love with her vs. being afraid of being a single parent or being lonely. She needed to hear how I felt about her and what my feelings were. I did my best to explain to her that the feelings were in my heart and not my head.
Rather than not pursuing or GD she needed to hear how I was feeling about her and our marriage. I told her that our old marriage was dead and that we needed to start on a new loving relationship. A slight smile at that.
I just wanted to say that articulating my feelings is what she required and GD is not always the best answer.
Just my $.02 worth. Anyone else out there have a similar experience?
