Piecing? Sexual issues? hmm...not sure

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Hi - Do you still read what he posts? Still an insight as to where his head is... I'd hate to discourage him from posting, but you should read everything he writes.

Does he know you are posting here? If not, i think it is really a good sign that you are all in on working on this.

I have gone from a point where I couldn't hardly stand to have my H touch me to at least enjoying the sex part of it. I still have a hard time with the intimate foreplay stuff, but if i can get past that, we have pretty good sex.

I know exactly what you mean about feeling uncomfortable talking about your fantasies... I always have too. There are still some H doesn't know about. I just posted on my own thread about a talk we had last night that really opened things up. H told me somethings he wanted to do and asked me about things i'd like. It was nice that he was so open with me and i in turn was very open with him. I can't tell you what will work, but I can tell you that any more secrets in your M can't be helpful. Tell him what you want, or maybe write it down for him to read later when you aren't around.

You might do better in peicing. Not sure if people post a lot there or not....

hang in there and keep fighting for your M. If he's still here, he probably still wants it to work out. So long as you are both moving in the same direction, things will improve.