Maybe hearing that from someone outside of you will cause him to think, but if he's in MLC he only thinks about himself.
mike, before i forget, your stitch thread locked and besure to let me know name of your new thread. Thanks for comfort on H kicking me down again. lol Yes,do believe H having another Man tell him he is really f**king with people's emotions and hurting people was a real slap in face. H that I married would never play with someone like that. Would you believe just this moring I HAD to Call HIM in ref. business!!!! Again I told H pain from him had to stop, if he wants to attend M/R retro. or such he has my phone number. H seemed so sad, I just don't get it. So that is where I stand, no more be friends and then the depression, either he steps forward or our marriage is for legal reasons. I am at the end of being deeply hurt. Guess guys when their young learn to block emotional pain like this and can handle emotions better. Do believe H thought we could be friends and he, happy with his OW, not going to be that way. So for now he has what he wants.
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The seed has been planted, give it time , it might bloom when you least expect it. Good to hear from you again. Went to bowling lanes tonight, saw old friends. Saw a couple of women there that sounded interested in meeting up some time.
Careful with other relationships. Consider this, what if you date, become very close to this OP and W would like to try Retro, etc. Now where are you going to be? Hurt all over again because either the OP will have to go or W. That is why I post for others do not date till you are done with the M. Don't get me wrong I am not judging you and I am at the point about to start going out with someone myself. Just don't want you to get hurt, that is all. Then again if you have a woman friend who says lets just go out and see if W hears about it , I guess that is different. Although not being honest with your W. <sigh> We all have to do what is best for ourself. BTW, have you set up a phone coach session?
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-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)
