The easy way to get the url to post with a name is to hit reply under a message, and get to the reply window. Open a new browser window, and go to the page you want to link to, highlight the address, and copy it (right click copy). Back in the reply window, there is an icon with the earth and a chain (www link?). Click on that. Paste the address there (get rid of the extra http:// if you need to). Hit ok, in the next window type the text you want to appear, and hit ok, and you are done. It ends up looking like this: [ url=http://some_address.com]The text you want to see[/url ] without the spaces at the beginning and the end. So, if you wanted to, you could do it manually.
Thanks for your kind words! I haven't been perfect, but the more I think about it, the more I think my "punishment" has exceeded my crimes. I've questioned whether she is MLC because at some level she has always (except before we were married?) been like this. It's worse now, so maybe there is MLC on top of it. I've sort of decided that it doesn't make a lot of difference, what I can do is about the same, in any case. I don't know that she has a history of depression, she's always been the "realistic" one, and the worrier. I tend to worry a lot less, and that bothers her! When did it start? I can't put a time to it, there's been a lot of rejection for a long time. Fifteen years at least, probably more. I just didn't realize how much it hurt at the time. I'm sure that my resentment messed up my behavior, which led to her rejecting me more, which led to more resentment....and so on and on!
Thanks for stopping in. I always read your thread. I don't always post, since others have often said what I'd say! I think you've really been doing great!
