MSLB - I know how you feel. I'd probably do the same thing you are doing if I got hit with more papers from my WAW. I think my WAW brings up lawyer, "when are you going to sign", anytime she wants me to squirm or whatever. Regardless, perhaps I'll do what I am going to tell you...say as little as you need, if anything at all. They just get in another world after they start talking about that stuff.
One last thing...you really emphasized how I feel so often..."I miss my wife. A lot. The one I married."