[/quote]I think anytime a spouses interests lie elsewhere whether emotionally or physically - yes its cheating. You have every right to be concerned - he might be addicted to it and need help stopping. [quote]
I agree 100% with this it IS cheating and DR book has a chapter on it.
JAK
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