Thanks Sandi2, I really appreciate your input. There have been a couple of times that I felt like exploding but I am learning to control myself. Yea her counselor is a dandy, I met her once and had that cold feeling in the pit of my stomach guess it's best to listen to those feelings.
I screwed up a little bit yesterday morning but I called her back for some other reason and apologized to her for bringing this stuff up and told her that I didn't want to put any pressure on her.. She said she appreciated that.. So a little at a time, we still talk to each other and haven't been fighting so that is something..
SeperatedinTPA, sorry you have to be here brother.. My heart goes out to you. I am reading the divorce remedy right now and it gives me some hope and some great insight. I have moved out and it makes things more difficult, think of your situation as a blessing since she is still in the house, however difficult that may be. Try to show your W the positive changes in you. Remember little steps, like it says in the book. Just do small things and be patient..
And come on here and vent like heck when you want..
