Sox,
It seems like he should be learning to adapt to and appreciate your effervescent personality and temperament. I can remember early in my M, a relative commenting to me that I was trying to suppress my W's personality. In the past several years, I've allowed her to influence me and work on being more flexible and lively.

I wonder why you give him such power? Perhaps it's time to consider some 180's in this regard, so that you can be comfortable in your own home. He's just going to have to cope.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching