my wife says she feels and has felt the same way about me sexually for over 19 years. so i know how your husband feels. i love my wife. i want my wife. she says she is not attracted to me. she says she felt that way on our wedding night. we have two great kids, and have had a pretty good life. how do you stay married for 19years lying to your husband the whole time. immature love, that is my take. my wife never had an affair. she just suffered in silence. she said she felt this way actually before we were married. if i sound like i am a little angry, i am. this is such a selfish attitude, on my wifes part and on yours. these are precious lives on the line, and to trample on them is extremely dishonest. but i can say with the love of Jesus, and alot of prayer, i have forgiven my wife. i pray for the marriage restoration. it is in Gods hands now.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023