Piecing? Sexual issues? hmm...not sure

[Mom of 2 Cherubs]

Thanks Ann. Unfortunately he knows that i read his posts and he has since stopped posting about our sitch. he now only responds and offers advice to others.

I have been trying to just think about all the things that I do like about him. Reminisce about the things we used to do, what things were like at the beginning of our marrage, etc. This is helping a bit. We went on the Retro weekend and are still working on the things we learned there. We are getting there, but it is a slow road.

I am hoping that through these intimate conversations that my feelings will develop more for him in that area. i am a sexual person i just have a very hard time feeling tha way towards my H. Fantasies in my own head - never shared - are what has gotten me through so far. I know someone is going to say - share those fantasies with him, but for some reason that makes me VERY uncomfortable. I'm not the type to be able to talk about those things.

I'm thinking about moving to the piecing forum, maybe I'll get more advice from those going through similar situations. I don't think the sexual issues area is really where i should go.