Hey H,

Ouch, sorry about your leg pains!! I can't even imagine how irritating it would be for something to hurt that's not even there.

I totally agree to leave those "love darts" alone (I question how they are a "love" dart even.. don't sound so loving to me). In fact they sound to me like a very bad idea. Little nasty jabs are not only going to build resentment in her towards you, but keep you focused on the negative feelings about her.

Sara - great advice.

H - glad you are feeling better today!!


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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