Yes, it does feel horrible that the rebound fling went so badly because I did resist it for many months. I thought it was best to be alone until a final divorce. He was the opposite of my husband in so many ways that it was exciting and I cannot believe I felt in power and safe. I was so wrong to get involved with someone else so damaged from his own divorce. I thought this was a bond but I was wrong. Hmmm. I have to go into work again tonight just like I did after my husband had an affair so publicly. People know about my H's affair and now they know about my lover's affair. How am I to be brave all over again? I guess one breath and smile at a time.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."