Sory about the leg pains and the bad dreams. I get bad dreams often too. It is hard not to believe them, but they are just dreams, and you have to put them out of your mind. They have nothing to do with reality. As for "love darts", I'm with IC, leave them alone. I am a big one for the sarcastic zinger, and it was one of the sore points of my marriage. I had to be taught to notice the nice things my husband did and comment on them instead. It made a big improvement in our lives together.
It really sounds like your wife is making an effort to be thoughtful towards you. The heater is one example, she's cooking you nice dinners, and she's making you a birthday party. I think she is ready for you to try for more intimacy. She knows where men and women being nice to each other leads. My gut says keep fixing the relationship and go for better communication, before you try talking about OM. That's not going to be your happiest conversation. You are on the verge of a great breakthrough. Don't muck it up now with last year's garbage.
Ouch, sorry about your leg pains!! I can't even imagine how irritating it would be for something to hurt that's not even there.
I totally agree to leave those "love darts" alone (I question how they are a "love" dart even.. don't sound so loving to me). In fact they sound to me like a very bad idea. Little nasty jabs are not only going to build resentment in her towards you, but keep you focused on the negative feelings about her.
Sara - great advice.
H - glad you are feeling better today!!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
My W just called ME at work... She called just to see how my leg was doing... She has not called me at work to see how I was doing in soooo long.. The last time she called she told me my fish died.. So we talked a little and I thanked her for putting the heater back and turning it on. She said she knew I would like it.. I then told her that I was going to the "ale works" down town for a thank you lunch for that product I worked on after work. She said that sounds neat..
I have butterflies in my stomach right now..
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Pisces February 19 - March 20 Pay attention to things that confuse you today, because within each of them lies a clue as to how you can grow. The mysteries in your life offer something: You can use them to create something new and improved in the way you go through the day. Insight is the key to any innovation. That goes double for your career or romantic goals. As you notice the patterns that are emerging, your mood will grow increasingly bright and positive. You will gain a strong sense of hope and confidence in yourself.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
