Dis, s9 doesn't know yet. I told d4 (almost 5) yesterday, she didn't flinch, we are all used to not seeing him for 4days in a row due to his work/court schedule, so she was like "ok". Both kids are more attached to me and run to me like crazy when they see me, I have to prod them to say hi to their father (he barely interacts w/them), so I think they will be ok. I do know it will be hard on s9 nonetheless, we'll tell him tomorrow.

ROT, you are right, I'm still expecting him to act like a normal whole dad would, and obviously he is no shape for that either, I thought at least he'd shown some tenderness towards kids since at the C one day he said that most of his unhappiness was about our R, that work was fine.
Yes, he is good at distracting himself when he feels pain, but the S should help him face himself, once there is just him and he doesn't have to stay out late at the gym or sitting in his car trying to avoid coming home.
The air was truly charged at home.

Slept better last night, I actually slept 5hrs! I'm glad for that, I still stay up 'til 1am so I am extra tired though.

Well, we have our S talk with MC today, I was driving myself insane w/the stuff I was going to say, but I give up, I've prayed for wisdom so I don't come out accusatory nor angry. Pray for me that we get the S details ironed out in a constructive manner today. Hugs to all \:\)

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.