Thank you Lin. I know this. I know that their R will have to break down in a healthy way for it to really end. I honestly am beginning to believe that she wouldnt stick to her word....she would take him back. She is weak and needy. My H knows however that I have promised my kids I wasnt going to let him do this again to us. But from what I have seen and heard from him, this cycle is really beginning to go around again.

....but it will stop with me. I have gotten strong enough over this past month to really look at things and know that something different has to happen, and he really needs to fix himself.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10