SPM,

It's not responsible. Get on the line to your lawyer ASAP and document this fully. Note it well because you are going to need it to get real parenting time with your kids. Most DB principles have to do with being nice, but when child safety is involved the gloves come off until the situation changes. No meanness involved, just protection of your loved ones. Children trump reconciliation any day.

NH


Me - 47
Her - 46
4 kids, 2 still at home