So sorry to hear about your illness. That sounds very scary. Have you talked to your W about how you felt she handled the situation? And have you told her how upset you are feeling? Simmering with unspoken resentment will not help anything. And I think kml makes a good point: would you be this upset about what happened if you already weren't resentful of other issues in the M? Maybe this was just the last straw so to speak? Hope you are feeling better.
