All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[Evie]

I need a quick decision - as we have 2 companies holding holidays.



My H wants to go out skiing during half term to visit D1 in France.



The company she works for and that we usually go with only have space for 2 -H and S1. I have said to H that I’m not that happy with him going with Just S1 and leaving S2 at home. (H and S1 also go skiing in March with the prep school)



There is another company that has 4 spaces left, but has no child care on offer and H wouldn’t be able to ski with both sons on his own as the little one is a complete beginner. He has agreed with me that it isn’t fair that S2 should be left at home (its also his 4th birthday mid week) and has put the proposition to me that I come too.



Doesn’t seem such a problem in writing but my head is swimming!



Things to take into consideration is that D2 (16) will be left at home and my mom would have to stay for a week (don’t think that will be a problem), I’m waiting for D2 to call me, so I can sound her out.



Swimming at the weekends – A week without admin cover – things normally go wrong when we’ve left it before, but if H is happy to leave it then I would be too.



So the options are:



1. H goes on his own

2. H and S1 go

3. The four of us go.



I naturally have reservations and am cautious about the 2 of us on holiday, is it a good thing or could it be a bad thing?



We would be together 24/7, sleeping separately of course.



What do you think?