Thank you for the kind words. The hardest part is the letting go. However, if it is meant to be, I have to let it happen and not try and control the outcome.
I've been listening to Sting's "If you love somebody, set them free" from time to time to reinforce what you've said.
Trying to control her will only insure that she'll leave and our marriage is over for ever.
I have no other options except to detach, let her go her own way, work on myself and my D and see what happens.
I still may take the ring off however. I had it off for a bit yesterday and it was a little empowering, to be honest. I'm not sure why, but it gave me some confidence that I can survive on my own again.
