Had a real bad night. The pain's in my leg kept waking me up plus I had a bad nightmare... Wife was through with OM in Washington but found another local. That is where she has been going when she says she is going to the gym or store or where ever...The OM even had a name. Can’t think if it now but it was one of those so real dreams...
I have a question... Choc talked about "love darts” I guess they are just statements about feelings that you say to your spouse and then walk away.....Like...”ya know With all this stuff going on it is really hard for me to trust you now." or "Ever thought how you would feel if I cheated on you?".. I may have miss-understood his concept but have any of you tried this approach? Or should I just keep planning my "vacation" and let the sleeping dog lie.... Ok no kiss or hugs last night... I was hurting to much (Physically) and then W was really wrapped up helping son with his math. Son had an attitude so W was not in a good mood....
A positive (I think). It has been cold here and we have this electric oil radiator heater that works pretty well. It has been in my (our) bed room because that is the coldest place in the house. (In more ways that one)... but anyway a few days ago I suggested to W that she move it into her "office" during the day to keep her warm... Yesterday when I got home it was in her office but before I went to bed she rolled it back to my (our) bedroom and had turned it on to warm up the bedroom. (I could have thought of a better way but....)So this is a positive right? She could have just put it back and left it off.
Ok another day has arrived... took my meds, trying to stay away from them because they tend to make my mind wander into negative territory... Off to check my scope
Bye
Husband The Dr of love...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
