I understsand why men like porn - its all over today and too easy to access. But I just dont think it is fair to you especially if he has stopped ML to you. How can you compete? - those women are not the average woman - they are airbrushed, breast enlarged, gymnastic gumbies who do anything. How is that fair to you? What if you got off to some movie stars picture every night and lost interest in him - would he like it? I do think it is cheating because he has stopped ML to you and is focusing on the porn. If if was something you enjoyed together to enhance your M that would be different - if you say it really does not bother you usually maybe you could ask him what he likes about them and what do they do that he would like you to do. THis is all if it does not bother you as long as he is ML to you also - but since it is a problem I think anytime a spouses interests lie elsewhere whether emotionally or physically - yes its cheating. You have every right to be concerned - he might be addicted to it and need help stopping.
