Signs that he would want to work on it and be in a R would be him saying so- obviously.
Yes, this would be great! Unfortunately, however, it seems to go that these actual words usually don't come until we're well into the reconciliation process. However, it IS a great thing to shoot for! So, just because you don't hear this, don't give up hope yet!
Making more effort to call and spend time with me. Small things would be him calling. Him initiating contact. Email, phone, hugs...eye contact?
When is he calling you and spending time with you lately? What's going on just before this happens? If you're having any conversations, when are the times that they go the best? When does he seem to be the most comfortable around you? When do any conversations or visits seem to last the longest?
How often are YOU initiating contact with HIM? What happens when you don't try to get in touch with him for awhile?
JJ
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