I wrote a little about this on another thread, but I thought that I would kind of take a vote on this:
H won't ML to me, but gets online and gets his rocks off on porn videos/pictures 2-3 times per week. I used to be fine w/ it, but lately it's REALLY eating away at me. How can he desire those women, but not me? We're trying to fix R and he said that he'd stop w/ the porn. So, am I way off base here? Is that the right thing to do? I don't want to limit anything that he does, and I feel as though I'm demanding that he can't watch porn. I'm not that type of W, and would never tell him what he can/cannot do. So, poll:
Do you think that masturbating to online porn video/pictures is cheating??
My vote: YES, but only if it interferes w/ the intimacy in a tangible relationship.
Kellie ------ Me - 27 H - 31 S - born 8/18/2007 Married - 4/24/2005 Together - 7/03/2002