Hi Toomanywords!

1st and foremost would of course- H wanting to at least work on the R. Be in an R with me.

What would be some of the first signs that your H would be willing to work on, and be in, an R with you? What are some of the small things that you would like to see?

We did watch movies together, we watched tv together- but we sat seperately, we weren't really "together". If that makes any sense.

Define "together", from your point of view. What would "together" look like in your eyes, besides just being in the same room? What specific things would be different than what you are doing now, what might an outside party be seeing?

Great start!


JJ

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