W2S,

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Does anyone wonder if the OW is sitting there as H talks on the phone, encouraging him to force the kids to accept her?


I think a lot of the time she is. I know when I talked to him last she was. I could hear her telling him I could talk to her. Like I want to, HA!!

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Do you think the OW wants to always feel like a homewrecking ho? Or would she rather be validated and accepted as family?


She would LOVE for my kids to love her. D5 does, D9 does not.

She even told STBX to ask me how D9 found out they were dating, that they never gave her any indication. Um, helloooooo... You slept in the same bed in front of my kids, you were there, you have each other's pics on your cell phones, you have matching rings.....should I go on?

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Heaven forbid any of them ever produce a book on CoParentingWithTheHo.


Can you imagine?!?

Love,
Shades