Yup, that's him, ALWAYS right!!! Isn't it scary how similar they all are????
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Your D is CLEARLY telling him that she is not ready for OW to be in her life. This is not about you, this is not about your marriage...it is about a little girl who is trying to process everything that is going on in her life as quickly as SHE can. But she is NINE!!! She is a child
You are soooo right. She told him "it's too much dad, there is just too much that's happened, I can't do it" I really could just about spit nails. Honestly, she is NINE!!! She doesn't know how to process all that has happened to her life this last 18 months and is desparately trying to and at the same time trying to keep it all the way it was. It breaks my heart.
Why he refuses to come and visit them ALONE is beyond me. He has seen them 3 times since last June. Once in July, for an hour that he came by on a layover. While he was here he set up the Tivo's in the house. The second time he was with them for 16 hours and brought ow with him. The third time he had them for 22 hours and had ow with him. This whole time D9 has been begging him to come ALONE. He said that's not going to happen. Sigh.
