Ok, since I am here and reading. 1st and foremost would of course- H wanting to at least work on the R. Be in an R with me. Otherwise anything I list here is not much good.
I too would want to make more quality time to enjoy each others company. We would spend time together, but he would be doing homework, I would be watching tv. We did watch movies together, we watched tv together- but we sat seperately, we weren't really "together". If that makes any sense.
I am adopting this from a previous post: Have a better understanding of each others needs and expectations.
Make our relationship a priority
Have a life outside each other.
Trust each other with the life outside of the other.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
