I just pick up the book and can not put it down. I wish I had this book months ago. My wife left 5 months ago. She is the Walk away wife described in the book. She said she is going to file for divorce but has not yet. I feel like i'm living in limbo waiting for her to decide what she is going to do. Should I force her hand eventhough I do nont want a divorce? She had an emotional affair with her boss and is unwilling to discuss it. I feel like 20 years has been thown away. The 4 kids are with me. Any suggestions on how to deal with my situation?