Ellie, your post is about a week behind. Most of the issues you're addressing I've already admitted to or accepted about her. I do not ever let myself be 'absolved' for anything. On the contrary I STILL blame myself for EVERYTHING. It's actually ALLOWING myself to give her some of the responsibility that's hard.
I saw my counselor last week (did you read that post) so I have begun work for the depression. I've changed my diet and introduced various supplements into my life on the recommendation of a nutritionist.
"BTW - renting out a bedroom is an excellent idea. Your kids will not suffer for it if you choose wisely. "
