Had a long talk with W last night. Started off light and fun, with the more risque comments being made with pen and paper (kids were around). Drank some wine and, as was inevitable, we began talking about us.
She is still working through her crap about OM. She also assured me that nothing like this will ever happen again. "I got burned once, I'm done."
My reply was "I got burned 3 times in 2007, should I be done?"
As expected, she said she didn't know. She said there are no guarantees because she's still trying to work through crap.
She accused me of spying (reading log files, grilling friends and family for information, checking to see who she's on the phone with). I denied all of this. In fact I told her how to turn the logging off for the game. I also told her that if I wanted to I could set up a keylogger on the computer and find out everything she types. I'm not interested.
Definitely in limbo right now. Need to find a way to shake some things up around here.
Hey Mmc
at least you are talking about it..this is good. at least for you... I have not mentioned the OM to my W for the last 8 months...yes it is something that is eating away at me...I don't think she knows how much this has hurt me..Sooo many times I wanted to say something but have not..I want to ask her how she would feel if I did it. Unfortunatly she knows me to well... Sorry I did not mean to talk about my sitch but did want to let ya know that at least you two can talk about it.. it's a start
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
