Once again, our sitches sound very similar. I haven't been online in more than a week b/c I'm pretty convinced it's over. I have the same questions you do- now that we're working on a separation agreement, is it worthwhile to DB? Do I really want to bother? My resentment and anger is just now coming to the surface b/c I feel like my efforts have been for naught.
I could have written your post.
Best wishes, MO2
Me-33, H-37 M-10yrs/T'gthr-13+ Twins- born 12/07 ILYBNILWY- Thanksgiving '07 He moved into apt 12/23/07 Expecting twins in days and husband left...