There's nothing wrong with snooping (I prefer to call it "intel" -- it's more more sophisticated. ) But it should be part of an overall PLAN, to confirm something that you DON'T know, or to confront your spouse with something they're denying. NOT just to masochistically punish yourself.
I thought you were going on a weekend? Go enjoy yourself, and try to forget about this for a few days.
) But it should be part of an overall PLAN, to confirm something that you DON'T know, or to confront your spouse with something they're denying. NOT just to masochistically punish yourself.