Gahh.. i missed these posts from others. thought i'd comment on em, becuase what I see some people "recommending" to you, could have really bad consequences.
Originally Posted By: Light Seeker
I can try taking one of my fantasies and applying it while ML. But again, it is more of a faceless person and more about the setting and what is happening.
Why would you WANT to, though? Lets look at the positives and negatives
How exactly is imagining having sex with someone other than your husband, going to build more intimacy between you and your husband?
If all you want to do is "be more turned on during intercourse with your H", then I suppose pretending "that man who is currently between my legs, is NOT actually there, and there is someone entirely DIFFERENT there", may be effective in making you more "sexually turned on".
But how is that supposed to make you feel any closer to your husband?
You may end up "enjoying sex" more. But you wouldnt be "enjoying sex with your husband", at an emotional level. So there wouldnt be any bonding "with your husband" from it. Seems like there are better ways to achive that 'bonding' goal.
PS: yeah, add me to the "digs muscular calves" list if your husband likes your legs... why wallow in your own negative image of them? Just borrow his positive one, and enjoy yourself more
if your husband likes your legs... why wallow in your own negative image of them? Just borrow his positive one, and enjoy yourself more 
