Well, I'm thinking if he specializes in law-enforcement he may understand the type of husband that I deal with. He may offer ways to deal with the anger, and control that I deal with? Maybe you're right. I just don't know what to look for. Other than a solution-based therapist.
I know I shouldn't expect miracles in the first couple sessions, but he doesn't seem to be a good fit. He even said I don't need to come back unless I want to, which makes me think he has nothing to offer me.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."