It is amazing how he works,I didn't even know that she was coming to church last Sunday until she walked in and sat beside me,and it just so happened that the sermon that day was all about family,marriage and doing things Gods way instead of the worlds way,he talked about God can restore any broken relationship if we will just let him.

What a perfect message,I wanted to keep nudging her,like did you hear that,but I didn't I just kept looking forward and listening,I know she heard what was said.

I'm really trying to understand about detaching,I am giving her space and not pushing any R talk,but I feel like she is to comfortable with our current sitch,she goes to work comes home to her house and kids,I see the kids almost daily and then she ask me over for dinner on most weekends..
It's like she doesn't miss me and thinks we can just get divorced and everyone will be all friendly like we are now and she will have freedom to do what she wants with who she wants without feeling guilty,all though our S12 already told his mom that she would be committing adultry even if she does go through with the D.

Last edited by HHIF; 02/01/08 01:49 AM.
Married 28 yrs
Seperated 6 mths
Rec D Papers 11/24
W Canceled D
Moved Back Home 3/1/08
2 Kids D23 and S16
Trying 2 Put R Back Together